Anyway here is a another post obout similar experiences. This is why I always recommend backups and to hire a local pc tech that knows what he/she is doing.
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Create a dummy(or an actual account if you use the software) and then login
to Live Messenger.
Under the menu choose Options. In that window you can disable the checkbox
that starts Windows Live Messenger at startup.